How to Build a Social Life in a New Country

Sambhavi
Aug 12
3 min read

Updated: Aug 26

Building a social life from scratch in a new country abroad can be difficult, especially when you have to manage everything on your own. While it's essential to spend time alone and not depend on anybody else, it's equally vital to have friends who can help you out when things get tough. It’s a massive opportunity for self-improvement, personality growth and communication skills.

Many international students might be going through the same dilemma of having to make connections from scratch and realizing that you are not alone in this will help you go a long way in your journey to make connections.

Let’s find out a step-by-step strategy to build your connections and networks abroad:

Start with your Proximal Network:

There are several study clubs, society groups and university programs where you can enrol and make networks with people around you. Starting with your immediate group will help you make local friends without having to travel distances. Attending lunches or events after university classes can be beneficial in adding a touch of enjoyment to your social life.

Accept Invitations:

Saying “yes” to invitations even when you are unsure can be a great start to building a social life. Trying to just show up at places can help you go a long way; you need not be super involved in the group outing. Just tagging along can help others connect with you better.

Break the ice:

Be the first one to initiate a conversation. Lead the way and ask them questions about themselves, because people love to talk about themselves. If you make the first move and ask them questions, they will be more open to having a fruitful conversation with you.

Keep trying activities:

If you have interests in book clubs, fitness clubs, or other similar groups, consider joining these activity clubs to meet people with shared interests. These clubs can help you grow your interests and build a social life beyond your work and academics. If you love volunteering, try joining community help groups and NGOs to help the society around you.

Be regular

Social networks thrive on consistency and regularity. Others appreciate it when you show up for them consistently. You will eventually stop being the “new person” at the social events that you become a part of regularly. Maintaining regular engagement with your friends can help them understand you better and build a deeper connection with you as compared to someone who is absent or goes off suddenly.

Enjoy your own company:

Spending time alone and enjoying your own company is crucial when it comes to building a new social life. You need to have fun with yourself to enjoy being with others truly. If you are not “desperate” to have friends, you are likely to attract more like-minded people along the way.

Conclusion

To summarise, we can say that it's very natural to build a social life abroad. Once you start becoming your authentic self, you attract genuine people in your life.

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